Present Privileges, How History Impacts Current Oppression and How we Must Act

Perhaps it is unwise, perhaps my voice and opinions are irrelevant or unnecessary to the conversation at large.  I, however, cannot listen to that.  I am compelled to speak.

So, if you don't want to hear my opinions, you are free, welcome and encouraged to move along elsewhere and do what you will without listening.

I want to start by addressing the fact that many people are saying everything I feel much more eloquently.  But I have two pieces I'd like to share that I haven't seen being talked about with quite as much detail as I think it deserves.  First Privilege and second a bit of history from a historian.

Privilege as an Idea - How to sit with it and think about it productively

We have all heard a lot of talk about the word Privilege.  It makes people uncomfortable for a variety of reasons.  Sometimes they feel convicted, guilty, shamed because they know they are privileged people and have seen wrongs they have done nothing to correct.  Maybe they feel guilty because they know that they have seen injustice and they have turned their heads and walked past.

Sometimes the idea of privilege makes people feel uncomfortable because they feel as though it invalidates their own daily struggles.  Not everyone has a voice.  Many people feel the lack of agency and voice keenly, even if it comes from a different sort of hardship or oppression with which they struggle than the very visible racism we are talking about today.

Sometimes the idea of privilege makes people feel uncomfortable because they do not like the idea of benefiting from the suffering of others.  That's a good thing.  Sit with that feeling.  Think about it and figure out a way that you can help create change, and help alleviate suffering.

Now I wanted to address a few things about this.  Privilege comes in all forms and everyone has at least a tiny bit of privilege that another person might not have.  You might be male and have the privilege of benefiting from a system and a culture that does not objectify you and tolerate your harassment.  Of course it is possible for men to be harassed too, but I have not met a woman yet who has not had at least one very scary experience with harassment and fear for her safety because she is a woman.

Examine your feelings

The point I'm trying to make is that we should examine our feelings and see where they are coming from.  See what they are telling us about our fears and our thoughts.  See what actions your feelings are demanding you take to satisfy them.

And then take a minute and think about what your present privileges are in this life.  And think about what a present duty is for that privilege.  I got this idea from Danielle Coke on her lovely, informative and inspiring Instagram page @ohhappydani.  You should check it out for yourself.

Here is a picture of her examples of how to think about her privileges and what duties she feels come from those privileges.

This is on @ohhappydani's Instagram profile.  You can find this video under her permanent highlight called Privilege.

Her examples of privileges that she has, and the duties as a result of those privileges are as follows:

1. Having the ability to stay home ---- duty to stay home and protect those who cannot stay home
2. Socioeconomic privilege  --------- duty to donate to causes and organizations

I think this is a really important point.  Privilege is anything that you a blessed with, and you should be aware that you are lucky to have it, and think of how to use it for the good of your community and society.

So, I'd like to take a moment to talk about my Present Privileges, what they are, how I feel about them, and what I feel are my duties that come along with them.  I am, perhaps more aware than most, that some privileges are fleeting.  Socioeconomic privilege being one of the most transitory things in my life.  So, bear in mind I'm talking about the privileges I currently have.

I am privileged with:

Being a person with very light coloured skin.  

I know this means I don't normally experience the sort of racism people of colour face daily.  I only say normally because I have been in situations where I faced daily hardships as a result of my skin color, but it is not currently my situation and I realize that this very fact is a privilege.

Now, if I'm allowed my feelings about my skin, I will tell you about them.  I feel irritated by my skin colour.  I think dark skin tones are beautiful, and I've personally always wished I were a darker skin tone myself.  I hate burning in the sun in under five minutes.  And in the summer when the bugs come out on cool nights I resent being so luminescently pale that I attract them like a light source.  I always thought darker skin tones were more practical for these reasons.

I feel that it is my duty, as someone who benefits from this privilege to use my voice to correct oppression and racism of people without this privilege.

I currently have socioeconomic privilege.

I have just recently acquired a part time job that allows me to work remotely.  This has been good for me mentally and health wise.  I am currently struggling with Lyme disease and have a compromised immune system.  So, the ability to work from home was a great benefit to me even before Covid-19 happened.  It allowed me to work when I needed and attend doctor's visits and schedule my life as my health required.

After lockdown in Southern California started I felt incredibly lucky that I had the ability to work from home while I was compromised.

My duty as someone with socioeconomic privilege at this time in the country is to support those who are suffering.  I have helped support local businesses, restaurants and donated to causes I believe will help people who do not have the privilege of a job and economic stability at this moment.

I currently have the ability to stay home.

As I mentioned above I am lucky enough to have found a part time job that allows me to stay at home during this lockdown.

I feel my luck, I assure you.  I was unemployed for the last six months and ill on top of that.  I feel lucky to be able to work from home and pay my bills.

My duty is to stay home as much as possible to protect those who cannot.  To wear a mask in public when I must go out and to limit my trips outside to save our community from increased exposure and danger.

I have the means to make masks

I have the fabric, sewing machine and skills to make my own masks that fit properly on my face.

I realize that not everyone has this privilege so it is my duty to help where I can.  With the help of my mother, who did most of the work, because my hands hurt with Lyme Disease, helped to make masks for two local food banks, whose volunteers risked their own safety to feed the community.  We have helped make masks for the friends and family who need masks and cannot make them.

I have more than enough food

It is my duty to help provide for those who do not have the money or food that they need.  I cannot, right now, volunteer my time.  But I have donated food and masks to local food banks because that is what I can do.

I have friends and family who love and support me

I feel it is my duty to pass on the love and support that I am freely given to others.  When I can I perform what acts of service I am able to offer.  I offer words of love and encouragement when and where I can.  I listen to other people's pains, fears, and hopes for a better future and I do what I can to alleviate their suffering and help with their dreams.

I have a gift for writing (at least I think so on some days)

I believe it is my duty to share words of hope with the world.  I believe it is my duty to stand up for Truth, Equality, Justice and Hope.  I believe it is my duty to fight racism, injustice and lies about the futility of efforts to create change.  Change is difficult, yes.  Change is painfully slow.  But change can be made out of the tiniest pieces of hope.  Change comes when millions and millions of people do just the one thing that they can.  For me I think it is writing about the Truth and writing about the struggle for Justice and hope.  Most of all, I think we need to maintain hope even in the face of extremely difficult battles.

I think Lizzo had a post that stated this beautifully on her Instagram account.

I found this on Lizzo's Instragram page, and it seems to have originally been a tweet by the eloquent @Lindss_tastic

We need all of the different jobs to bring about a lasting change in our system.  You do not need to personally do all of them.  You only need to do what you can, just your one bit.  We need the people who are loud and the people who are quiet, those who are hard and those who are soft.  We need those willing to stand firm, and those who help pick up the pieces and soothe the broken when it's all gotten to be too much.  We need all of these functions in society and in our causes.  

Do not feel that you have failed your fellow countrymen and citizens if you must stay home during this time.  There are other ways to help, including signing petitions, helping to talk to the people you can manage to reach (even from home) and surviving to take the fight onwards to another battle on another day.

I have the gift of insight into our past

I am an over-educated historian.  I have two degrees in history that do not make it easier for me to find jobs.  But I do have a window into past struggles because of this.  It's both a blessing and a curse.  

Sometimes it is a burden to me, to see things ramping up to replay themselves in all the old familiar ways.  One very obscure example is that during the reign of Peter the Great in Russia (roughly around 1698) decided that he wanted everyone to be clean shaven like the rest of Europe.  So he tried to force everyone to shave with a beard tax, fining them if they didn't.  There were beard revolts.  It sounds weird but it's all too true.  You can read about why Peter the Great did this here.  And you can get an overview about the beard tax here.  Why did I bring this up?  Because a few years ago I saw an article where they were planning to forcibly demand Tajik men shave to stop radicalization.  I wrote about it in a this post here.  I talked about how stupid it is to try to force men to shave in an attempt to keep them from radicalizing.  Another article and I, both agreed that it would probably have the opposite results, forcing someone to shave might radicalize an otherwise peaceful man.  Just like it did in Russia with the beard revolts.

Anyway, it gives unique and sometimes burdensome insight to see things replaying themselves in ways that I know will lead to unrest and violence.  And it is hard to watch.  But sometimes it gives me a view into why things are the way they are.

So, if you'll permit me to talk about the history behind oppression, I have a few things I haven't seen talked about yet and I think need saying.

Why We Need to Seriously Consider the Cycles of History and Systemic Oppression Today

Now, I know that things have changed from the 1700's and the 1800's.  I'm a historian, believe me, I know what has changed.  But allow me to point out a few things.  I am not trying to make anyone feel guilty about what privileges they do have.  I'm just going to point out that some cycles are almost impossible to overcome as an individual.  What I am trying to say is that our system has failed our citizens.

There has been a lot of talk about crime and desperation in the last few days.  I would like to address where this crime stems from in a broad historical manner.

Consider that after black people were freed from slavery they had no land, no money, no education and no possibilities.  They were essentially displaced refugees and they faced blatant and widespread violent racism.  How were they to better themselves with everything against them?

Now let us say that we have moved forward in time.  People have moved into cities where jobs are more prevalent and there may be hope for more opportunities.  Black people still have to fight poverty, and unemployment because of racism.  This means they are less able to attain degrees in higher education and higher paying jobs even when they have degrees.  They will experience a life of more unemployment and lower paying jobs on average.  Financial desperation is one of the main motivators for crime.  Rises in unemployment correlates with rises in crime.

Consider the words of Thomas Moore in Utopia:
“For if you suffer your people to be ill-educated, and their manners to be corrupted from their infancy, and then punish them for those crimes to which their first education disposed them, what else is to be concluded from this, but that you first make thieves and then punish them.”

Our system is set up to make thieves and then punish them.  In cities where crime and gangs abound and minorities struggle to survive we have failed our fellow men.  We have failed to educate them.  We have failed to give them jobs and a way forward.  We have failed to keep them from the corruption of violent gangs, and we have failed to give them safety without them falling into the ugly patterns of gang life to survive.  We failed them.  They turned to the only things that could give them economic and physical safety in their neighborhoods, crime and gangs.

We have systematically created thieves and we are now punishing them for trying to survive in a world we created that only left them one option.  We make thieves and then punish them.  Of course we aren't calling them thieves in the media.  We are calling them "criminals".  But we made them that way.

And now it is our duty to recognize the in-congruence of this terrible behavior on our part to look at the outcome we allowed and to blame it for its own existence.  How dare you be angry and desperate and unlawful?  How dare you be a criminal!  We must understand that we do not have to excuse the crime, to excuse the "criminal" that we have created by our own inaction.

Of course it is not right to hurt other innocent people, or harm their businesses.  But as we know many of the people who are starting off the rioting and looting are not actually the protesters.  Even so, we do not have to agree with the crime, to be sympathetic to the plight of those causing it.  In many ways we have given them no options.  As an individual you may not have done anything wrong, but as a society we are all to blame.  This injustice, this racism, this cycle of creation and punishment must stop.  And we must all stand up and stop it today.

Action is the Only Way Forward

I implore you.  I beg you.  Act in a positive way.  You can make a difference and you can choose to make a positive impact.

I have sympathy with those who are angry and those who feel they have no other way of being heard.  But I beg you, as an individual to be involved in long-lasting change.

Violence and large scale protests are going to generate awareness.  But if you do not act to help enact laws and change, all of this will be a flash in the pan.

And we cannot allow these injustices to continue. We cannot allow police brutality.  We cannot allow racism.  We cannot allow the continuance of cycles of oppression and hardship that create and then punish thieves.

YOU, just you alone, can make a difference.  You can sign petitions and vote.  You can speak up, and volunteer.  You can march, and you can change minds.  You can effect change.  And I beg of you that it will be positive.

Stay angry, but act positively.

Let your righteous anger guide you to act.  Sign a petition to demand justice for George Floyd.  There are plenty of other ways to act.

I will share the words of Barack Obama which rather eloquently state that we need to understand and sympathize with the legitimate frustration, but also we need to act, vote, and create change.

Here is Obama's Instagram post in photos:

Barack Obama's Instagram post

Barack Obama's Instagram post

He has several helpful links on his website if you want to check that out here.  We must act.  You don't have to join a protest or demonstration.  You can do research and speak from an informed place.  Starting with credible sources that lay out facts like this article from the The New York Times on the facts of the last 9 minutes of George Floyd's Life.  You can vote, you can sign petitions.  You can join the Innocence Project to reform the criminal justice system or Black Lives Matter to fight racist policies head on through petitions or support of other kinds.

And now, I want to make one more plea, for patience with those who don't yet see.  I am not saying it's your job to educate them, or talk to them, or change them.  I am not even asking you to listen to them if you cannot handle that.  I am just asking you, in your anger, your justified anger, to not say or do anything that will alienate others, even those in the wrong.

I know that's asking a lot in the face of such tragedy and injustice, in the wake of a history of long centuries of oppression.  But to change our society we must bring everyone with us.  You don't have to change them, but one of us must.

So I ask you the question I asked on my last post about injustice and communication.

Is there still room among the Woke for those who are just awakening?  

Think long and hard about that before you answer.  I beg you not to doom our future with a self-fulfilling prophecy to a world that cannot change, a world full of eyes that cannot open.  

Again, I do not say this because I think it is every person's job to educate everyone they see who is walking on the wrong path.  It is not your responsibility to correct everything and educate everyone.  I am simply asking everyone to reflect before they speak.  Or walk away and do not engage these people.  I'm begging you not to make worse enemies out of people who have not yet seen the light, but need to.  If you cannot deal with them with patience and forbearance walk away, do not engage.

I'm begging everyone to act not solely upon an emotional reaction, but thoughtfully and in a way that will encourage, and firmly demand change, lasting change in our society.  Sometimes it requires more patience than you should be asked to exhibit in the face of injustice.  Sometimes it simply requires compassion for those who are in the wrong but also emotional and feeling attacked.

Is that fair?  No.

But we must make an effort, all of us together, or we will never change as a whole.  I'm not even asking that you personally do these terribly difficult things.  Just remember that someone must.  Someone must help educate the ignorant, must gently stand firm in the face of ugliness and make room for someone who is not yet on the right path to start to come towards it.  We must.  We cannot afford to have a society where we do not bring all people along with us.

We cannot allow people to remain ignorant, and uneducated in these areas.  Is it your job to educate them?  No.  But I beg you, if you cannot do this work, of patiently facing ignorance and biases, do not make it harder for the person that follows who must.  Because for the sake of our society, someone must do this work.  I beg you not to further embitter someone with heated words spoken in the moment.  Walk away.  And leave room for someone else to stand in the gap and educate calmly, to patiently address wrong ideas and irrational, emotional fears.

Remember that we are in this fight for the long haul.  And we must win.  So we must find a way to make room amongst the Woke for those who have just begun to awaken.

A Real List of Crazy, Weird and one or two Bushy Eyebrows

I feel like the internet isn't as useful as it used to be.  Now when you search for something in google it feels like you get only the most recently talked about things and it's hard to find anything else.

The other day I tried looking up something related to Hercules and all I could find was stuff related to some new game.  I don't care if it's the best mobile game ever created.  If I look up Hercules and I can't even get one search result including a Wikipedia page for Hercules, let alone one including his legendary adventures and labors, something has gone horribly wrong. 

To illustrate my point even more clearly I will use a random search I was performing today.  I remember seeing an older actor who had these crazy bushy eyebrows.

And the search words "british actor with crazy eyebrows" brought me Will Poulter.  I grant you, he has distinctive eyebrows but I would not call them crazy. 

This list of famous eyebrows was disappointing, only a few of them were even interesting.

https://www.gq.com/gallery/19-eyebrows-as-famous-as-the-men-who-own-them

And then there was this list of "insane" eyebrows.

https://www.imdb.com/list/ls070780793/

If your article has a list of 21 names claiming to be insane, is it too much to ask for at least one of them to be interesting?  I thought not.

 You ask which actor has the most insane eyebrows?

And then you suggest that normal looking male actors belong on that list.  Nicholas Cage, Joan Crawford, Colin Farrell, Lee Pace.  Come on!  Well, I say you're crazy.  Nobody on your list has crazy eyebrows. 

When you say insane eyebrows I expect more of the following:

Photo from this article

Granted there are not his normal eyebrows, he's made up for Dune.  This is Freddie Jones by the way.  But if you say insane eyebrows I want pictures like this.  Not of Nicholas Cage with his normal eyebrows.  Or Whoopi Goldberg, Peter Gallagher, Jack Nicholson.  Come on!

I mean really, are you crazy?  If you say insane eyebrows and that's the list you give me, or Will Poulter, whose eyebrows are distinctive sure, but are nothing like what I'm looking for, are you doing your job as a search engine?

I say not.

Now let me show you what I think are "insane eyebrows", or at the very least weird eyebrows.  Not just normal eyebrows that happen to be slightly distinctive or slightly bushy.

Let me show you what I was looking for.  I couldn't remember this man's name, so I tried googling him.  I knew he was a British actor, with a round face and strange eyebrows.  

His name is David Hemmings by the way.  For more on him you can read this article or this one that that picture came from.  And yes these are his real eyebrows.

Looking very classy with his pointy bushy eyebrows. Photo via this article.

But if you search for British actor with a round face and strange eyebrows you get this:

This!  First of all most of these are models with perfect eyebrows, the non image search isn't any better.  But let's take a moment to appreciate how bad the search results for this are.  One of these guys definitely doesn't have strange eyebrows, he has Alopecia, he doesn't have ANY eyebrows.  This is not to say he's less interesting as a person, he just doesn't have the insane eyebrows I was looking for.  

Now look at the text search that Google offered for this. 

Anyway, I thought it was appallingly lacking in any of the things I was actually searching for.  

But let's get back to the issue.  There are some people with really strange eyebrows out there.  And since you can't find them through normal means, just searching for strange eyebrows, let me give you some of them.

Here is a picture of Denis Healey from an article about his politics to be found here.  

I personally think his eyebrows should have been on a list of interesting eyebrows.

Then there is Archbishop Rowan Williams:

Archbishop Rowan Williams

And then there's Bernard Ingram 

Bernard Ingram

This guy came up under big noses, but I think his eyebrows are more of a salient feature myself.  

I can't even find this man's name but here is where I found his image.

Then there's Brezhnev

From the BBC page here.

And then there's Robert Morley Allan Warren

This next guy is really more of an honourable mention, but he's still better than that list I showed you above.

And ok, ok, the list did have a few guys with legitimately bushy eyebrows.  But that was the best they could do, not really crazy.

They at least included Eugene Levy with his bushy eyebrows.

Bushy yes, crazy?  I wouldn't say so.

And last but not least, if I search for crazy eyebrows.

And if you're going to show me perfect female models when I search for crazy eyebrows, I expect them to at least look like this.

This came from the following article.

Is it the most important thing in the world, no?  But, when I look up random search terms I don't like getting endless perfect models no matter what I search.  I want some of them to be at least in the ballpark of what I'm looking for.  If I look for crazy, weird, strange, bushy eyebrows, I want them to be at least a little interesting to look at.  

And no, bushy eyebrows aren't important.  But I feel like I keep running into this whenever I try to search something.  The search engine seems geared towards whatever is newest and popular even if it's not a good fit for what I'm actually trying to look up.

It's infuriating.

And that is my rant about how I don't think one of the most helpful tools of modern life is helpful enough for me. I'm going to go do something more useful with my time now.

But in the meantime if you're looking for some photos of crazy eyebrows, as one occasionally does, I hope these help.

The Reason We Must Try Harder to Actually Communicate, Especially When We Are Different

I just read a thing by a dear friend of mine saying that "if you claim you're not a political person you are lying, you're apathetic and you're an ignorant asshole who is a part of the problem".

Now, let me start by saying that I agree, apathy and ignorance are not acceptable traits.  I think we should avoid ignorance and apathy and try as far as possible to stay informed and active in our communities.

But now, if you will allow me to speak my mind, I will disagree with some of her points.  If I tell you I'm "not a political person" what I'm saying is that I don't want to engage in the conversation you want to have.  You are not entitled to my opinions just because you want to have a conversation.  I'm not in any way required to share my opinions with you if the conversation you want to have is insulting, emotional, illogical and most importantly not an actual conversation.  If you want to talk fine, but don't yell at me if you want to rant and I don't feel inclined to listen to you.

I do usually tell people I'm "not a political person".  This is not because I'm ignorant, and it's not because I'm apathetic.  That's the opposite of reality.  I feel way too strongly about so many things that go on in the world.  I just choose not to voice them with people who open conversations with inflammatory remarks, whether or not I agree with their points.  I have no desire to be involved in a "conversation" that is actually a rant about how you are right and smart and good and everyone who disagrees with you is evil.  You might even be right, smart and good, and everyone who disagrees with you might be evil, but if you're just looking to rant about it, I don't want to be involved.

Now, I know what my friend is getting at.  There are a lot of people who cloak ignorance and apathy with the self-righteous mantle of being "not-political".  But it is not everyone.  Sometimes the people who are telling you they are "not-political" are just those of us trying not to get shouted at for something that isn't our fault.  I'm trying to be very broad because this is something that happens to me often over many issues.  I'll give a quick example.  I had a cousin, who didn't like that I didn't share a political view of hers.  In a discussion when I stated my views, she said "educated people think the way I do."  I walked away, because it was clear that this wasn't going to be a conversation, it was going to turn into a place to say things we regretted.  That didn't mean I'm wasn't aware of the details (or the injustices) of this particular point.  Walking away didn't even mean that I wouldn't act on the issue.  It just meant "I don't want to talk to YOU about it anymore."

I am a very non vocal person about my political views and stances.  But it doesn't mean I don't vote, sign petitions, etc.  I resent being called an ignorant, apathetic, asshole because I won't engage in a heated, futile, exchange on social media.  Shouting electronically at someone you aren't even talking to in person does not actually accomplish anything.  It certainly isn't doing good.

I honestly think that posting inflammatory comments on social media only rouses more inflammatory remarks from both sides.  Angry words online have never made a situation better.  This is why I appreciate and respect people who don't just post their own rants in angry language in an attempt to make others angry.  (Or worse still, those who want to wound others verbally simply because they are angry and they can't handle the emotion without inflicting it on others.)  I appreciate it when people actually provide a way to help change whatever situation they feel needs changing.  I appreciate those that include links to petitions, or news about what is on ballots, or how and where to join a rally etc.  Actionable advice.

Of course this is a fine line.  Sometimes just sharing the information is what is necessary for the situation.  Sometimes the situation is that people aren't aware of the injustices going on and broader segments of the population need to understand that there are, in fact, injustices.  In these cases it is important to share the facts, but your opinions aren't needed with them.  Truth can stand on its own two feet.  Calm, rational, logical facts are necessary and can change minds and cause action.

And Action is what is really, truly necessary!

Yes, sometimes writing about or telling other people about an injustice is the action required.  More often, voting, signing petitions, attending rallies, and PEACEFUL protests is required.  If you are talking to people who don't understand or see your side, it's going to be rough.  But what is required is one on one rational conversations to really attempt to understand the other side first and then and only then trying to explain the other side of that coin to them.

That's the hardest part, you have to actually try to understand why the other person believes what they say, what the core fears are that they are expressing to you in their negative beliefs.  They are usually emotional fears not based in facts.  You have to understand what fears they are expressing and that there is a kernel of truth buried under that emotion even if the trappings are irrational.  You have to listen to what they mean, not what they are saying if you're going to have any hope of persuading people.  People say and do things that make no sense when they are afraid and unaware of reality.

You see, no matter how angry and right you are, if you shout your views at someone it doesn't help.  What good does it do if you tell a close friend that they're ignorant because they don't agree with you?  Even if they are ignorant, will they be more willing to hear your side and arguments?  Does it help anybody if you say insulting things to people who don't agree with you?  Or to those who haven't yet learned all the facts about a situation yet?

Shouldn't ignorance be met with patient facts?  Don't yell at the ignorant, calmly educate them with reason.  And if you cannot, then walk away, but don't shout at them.  It solves nothing.

Shouldn't apathy be met with an appeal to humanity?  Not a shouting, insulting response that at the very best, has the likely result of helping to shovel extra sand onto the ostrich's buried head, and at worst of rousing resentful anger towards you and your entire cause.

Shouldn't wrong ideas be met with right ones?  Politely explaining the right things, not just addressing a wrong with another wrong.

Yes, as a student of history, I know all too well that peaceful protests do not always garner good results.  But we do not respect Gandhi because he got beat up once and then started a violent revolt.  We respect him because he and his followers took the high road and never once backed down.  Helping to awaken the sleeping to a new woke world is not a road for the feint of heart.  It is a long, lonely road filled with hardships and that is exactly why we must take it.  Because we must believe that eyes can open and minds can be changed.  We must believe that the future can be sculpted into something new and just and equal with perseverance and enough helping hands.

Shouldn't friends be able to politely, and yes firmly, disagree without devolving into insults?

However wrong they are, insulting the other side has never won any allies.  And when we are talking about systemic injustice, we need to enlist every person we can to our cause as an ally.  Alienating those willing to listen out of the heat of anger and a mean spirit, helps nobody, and brings no justice to those you claimed you were fighting for. (I'm speaking of those who shout at friends and create enemies out of them.)

Is there still room among the Woke for those who are just awakening?  Think long and hard about that before you answer, because if you do not believe so you are dooming us through a self-fulfilling prophecy to a world that cannot change, a world full of eyes that cannot open.  

Now, this is has all very vague, because I believe it applies to so very many political discussions, and disagreements I've personally experienced over the years.

However, if you'll permit, I'd like to be more specific at this juncture.

There are occasions where something must be said, and to as many people as possible.  Wrong is wrong.  And it must be demanded that justice is pursued for those wrongs.  The oppression of a person based on their skin color, gender, religion, ethnicity or national origin cannot be tolerated.  Abuse of power is wrong.  Murder is wrong.  Black lives MATTER.  ALL lives matter.  Every single life matters and we cannot stay silent when any lives are taken violently and publicly: especially those who belong to a minority that have been repeatedly marginalized by our society through long-lasting cycles of oppression, poverty and prejudice.  Until every life taken through violence receives the same justice we are not safe.  IF any person can decide who is worthy of justice we are none of us safe and free.  And we cannot stop fighting for equality and justice and safety and freedom until all of us have it.

We must pass laws that require fair and equal treatment of all people.  Yes.  But we must also gain public awareness AND support.  This must be done with patience, kindness, and the kind of perseverance that is willing to talk one on one with the people you don't agree with, and probably don't much respect.

I won't say anything else.  I've probably already said too much.  I'll simply show you what we need more of in this world.  We need more of the tough, patient, peaceable and persistent conversations that so rarely happen these days.

We need this kind of communication.




We need more of this kind of communication.  Because communication, real communication, tough, uncomfortable, patient and firm communication can change people and can change minds.  This one video of a Black Lives Matter protest at a Trump rally is proof of that.

May we all live to see better days.

Recreating Paintings in Quarantine

During the lockdown in southern California I have been keeping busy.  I'm doing some freelance writing, I'm reading, I'm cleaning and I'm doing art.

I'm doing all kinds of art.

I have begun painting, making dollhouse miniatures and most recently I've started recreating paintings with things from around the house.  This whole thing was started by The Getty Museum Challenge and you can find other fine recreations under the hashtags #gettymuseumchallenge and #betweenartandquarantine

For the first one depicted below I've recreated Tissot's painting, The Widower.

My Recreation and Tissot's The Widower

And that was so much fun that I decided I need to recreate a few more paintings.


So here is my recreation of Henry Fuseli's The Nightmare.

The Nightmare by Henry Fuseli and a recreation with Jojo the cat.

The Nightmare by Henry Fuseli












My recreation of The Nightmare - featuring my cat AKA Jojen aka JoJo

I didn't want my dogs to feel left out by all the fun that Cat and I were having so the next few recreations involve them.

This is Charles van den Eycken's painting titled "Willpower" 1891

My poor fools were so confused about what they could and couldn't eat after this they almost were reluctant to take the treats when I gave them to my boys by hand.

Next is the recreation of Briton Rivière's painting Requiescat from 1888.

Shadow snuffled my hand for treats the entire time we tried to do this photo.  Not smiling was almost harder than keeping his attention when he thought treats were a hopeless endeavor and tried to give up.

Next is a recreation of Compulsory Education, also painted by Briton Rivière.

Do not let Rocky's mournful eyes deceive you.  He was so excited by the treats that came out of this photoshoot that he happily traipsed over for more than one take.  

The next painting is untitled but commonly referred to as Knight Resting with Dog by Nicaise De Keyser

The amazing armour dress and leggings I'm wearing are from Lorica Clothing, the Sackville skater dress and the Sackville leggings. All of their products are amazing, if you have need of comfy armour dresses or leggings I advise you look for them at Lorica Clothing.

The next is a painting by Thomas Weaver and is titled The Dunearn Ox c.1812-1815

No, really though, why are so many portraits of cows so rectangular?  If you're interested in this particular phenomenon you may want to check out this article on rectangular cows in UK art. 

I thought my rabbit had a nice scale next to my "cow".  Doesn't Shadow make a fine cow? I thought so anyway.  So, I decided to take advantage of his lovely cowhide (tshirt situation) and take another pastoral photograph with Rocky too.

This one, Animals Resting in the Pasture is a painting by Paulus Potter

Aren't my cows fine? Don't I make an enviable farmer? I'm marriageable at the very least, if I'm not the envy of the county with such fine cows as these.  It is a truth universally acknowledged that a woman in possession of a fine herd of dogs, I mean cows, must be in want of a husband.  Or perhaps just an occupation.

Ok, so technically this next one is a woodcut not a painting.  But I think it still counts, it's very much a recreation.  

This is a woodcut by Hans Holbein the Younger called either the Chandler or The Peddler for the Dance of Death series c.1526.

and here is my recreation of it...